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November 26, 2007

Cherry and Copper Spinning Wheel Orifice Hook – in the shop now.

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It’s Monday. I have the day off.  I’m all alone.  Everyone is at school or work.  I’m just about to have an Buttered English Muffin for Breakfast.  Then there will be a few phone calls, errands run, a little tidying up of the house – and knitting.  I’m on the leg of the second pink sock and about to start the second sleeve of Wallaby.  Things are good. 

Here’s a question – and it’s about Knitting Groups.  I’ve been thinking about this for a day or so.  I love my Knitting Group.  I go there for the chance to sit and knit with my people.  To talk and chat about whatever – knitting, kids, news – you name it.  I love being able to “talk” knitting – exchange ideas, discover new patterns and the occasional tip or trick that we can all be glad we found out about.  But I don’t go there to “teach”.  I don’t mean this to sound as selfish as it’s probably going to sound.  I don’t mind helping someone who’s stuck on something – that’s a few minutes here and few minutes there and I think that’s what we should be doing.  But if someone comes and wants to LEARN to knit something new – scarf, sock, hat – I don’t think that it’s the right time to be teaching a “class” on something and using up a good 40 minutes of group time doing that – unless we’ve decided as a group that next meeting we are going to be learning such and such and everyone agrees.   I really thing knitting group is for the “group”.  Although I’m happy to teach someone and I have given classes and lessons - It was noisy.  I was trying to socialize.  I was trying to get some of my own knitting done.  I did not get a say in this – I wasn’t asked beforehand – “If I come next week with my_______, could you teach me how?”  I don’t think it’s right for someone to show up at knitting group and just assume people are there for the sole purpose of being a resource for them, when they haven’t picked up a book, looked on the Internet or attempted to take a class.  I felt like I was backed into a corner and really didn’t know what to say.   I really don’t mean to sound like a bitch.  I’m a very generous person with my knitting – talk to me and ask me if we can meet on our own and I’ll teach you whatever I can.  Just not at group.  I don’t think it’s fair to me, or the other knitters there.   What do you think?  I’d really like to hear your comments on this.